suspects me of desiring other women, or so it seems. She's away for her work right now. I think she needs to read "Savage Love" on theonion.com more. Dan Savage told a woman who saw that her husband has been cruising the "encounters" part of Craigslist isn't necessarily doing so seriously, nor is he even interested. I do the same thing every so often, but yuck, I wouldn't fuck around. The Craigslist is good reading for one, and Jess seems to be a Victorian when it comes to conceptions of sexuality and sexual desire. Secondly, I wouldn't cheat on the future mother of my kids. How would I explain that to Adam, Jr.?

So, in the final analysis, desire is good and natural, and worth cultivating. Its suppression makes things worse. Stoics die young, and not heroically. The fact that I have a thing for zaftig, pneumatic (look these words up) slightly crazy young women, like my wife, does not mean I'm an irreligious polygamist wannabe.

So there. A slice of male sexuality with cant.